The Stubborn Hope Syndrome: A Human Design Flaw We Love
You ever notice how we, as humans, are basically programmed to never give up—no matter how many times life drop-kicks us? It’s like the universe is throwing obvious hints that "Hey, maybe quit while you're ahead?" but our hearts just go, "Nope. One more try." This isn’t optimism. This is stubborn hope syndrome—a condition where, despite overwhelming evidence that something is a lost cause, we still believe, "Maybe this time, it’ll be different." And the worst part? We don’t even panic. Nope. We just sit there, sipping chai, watching the chaos unfold, whispering, "It’s fine. Everything will work out." Let’s dive into some classic cases, shall we? Exhibit A: The ‘He Will Change’ Fairytale The, the age-old belief that love can turn a toxic, emotionally unavailable person into a devoted saint. The red flags are so red, they’re practically sirens. Yet, there you are, saying things like: "He just needs time." "He’s different when it...